FAQ

Contrary to popular belief, strippers aren’t just young, perfect-looking women. In fact, women aged 18 to 50, with diverse body types and life experiences, work in this industry. It’s important that each brings something unique to the table—charisma, confidence, and passion for what they do. Working in strip clubs is open to women of all ages, weights, and appearances, as personality and the ability to build rapport with clients are crucial.

A dancer’s job involves not only stage shows but also interacting with customers, which provides an excellent opportunity for additional income. After shows, the girls often sit at tables to interact with club guests. Customers can invite the dancers for a drink, and each receives a percentage of the sale – the amount varies by club, but champagne is particularly lucrative. Another option is private dances. Customers can request such a show, but it’s up to the dancer to decide whether she agrees. That’s why it’s so important to showcase your skills on stage and build rapport with the guests. They determine whether you’ll have the opportunity for additional, more profitable performances. You can also offer private dances yourself – confidence is the key to success and truly high earnings!

If you want to stand out on stage and attract customers, it’s important that your outfit reflects your individual style. Opt for eye-catching colors like red, pink, or white—especially if the club has UV lighting. These colors will not only stand out in a crowd but also boost your confidence! Opt for modern, erotic outfits that highlight your best features. This can include sensual lingerie paired with bold elements like latex dresses, sheer lace details, or bolder accents. It’s important that your outfit suits your personality while also being comfortable to wear—after all, you want to feel confident throughout your performance. If you have a specific vision for your outfit but aren’t sure how to bring it to life, I’m happy to help! I know designers who create modern, erotic outfits that suit every figure and preference. Together, we’ll create something that perfectly highlights your unique style!

Don’t have a sensual outfit? No problem! You can start by checking out Shein – you’ll find plenty of sexy lingerie sets, bodysuits, and dresses at really affordable prices. Alternatively, check out chain stores like H&M or Zara, where you’ll often find elegant, form-fitting dresses that are perfect for the stage. All it takes is a little imagination to create a sensual look to start with – and you can always add the rest later, once you’ve figured out what suits you and your style best!

If you want to feel confident and comfortable while performing, shoes are truly important! I recommend the “glasses” from Pleaser Shoes—they’re a hit with dancers worldwide. These shoes are designed specifically for pole dancing, so you can be sure they’ll be stable and safe. Thanks to the rubber sole, you don’t have to worry about slipping—they provide excellent grip, even on slippery surfaces. What’s more, these shoes look amazing! They have a high heel, a transparent design, and a sexy look that will enhance your style on stage. With Pleaser Shoes, you’ll feel not only comfortable but also incredibly confident—perfect for any performance. It’s an investment that really makes a difference, so it’s worth trying!

When choosing a nickname for your club, it’s worth choosing something that sounds sensual but is also unique. It’s a good idea to choose a name that begins with the same letter as your real name – this will make it easier for you to identify with it. Avoid overly common names like Blanka or Candy, as they can be associated with many girls. For example, if your name is Karolina, you could choose Klara, Karo, or Kate. A nickname should be something you feel comfortable with and that suits your style.

If you have the opportunity to choose your own song for the show, it’s absolutely worth it! This will help you feel more comfortable and confident on stage. Choose two songs – one fast and energetic, the other calmer and more sensual. Prepare two different choreographies to match the atmosphere of the club and its guests. Before your performance begins, you’ll already have a feel for the evening’s atmosphere, and you’ll be ready for anything. Check if you can choose the music, or if the club imposes a pre-made playlist – this will really help you feel completely comfortable!

Perform movements that fully utilize your assets – beautiful legs and a voluptuous butt. Stand confidently, legs slightly apart, resting on the pole, hands on your knees. Slowly lower yourself down, controlling each movement, and then return to the top just as smoothly, holding the pole between your buttocks. Once you’re standing straight, lean forward slightly, showcasing your sensuality and accentuating your feminine shape. Perform this movement while looking directly at your client – this will allow you to fully utilize your assets from both the front and side, drawing their attention. This combination of simplicity and sex appeal will make you feel confident and stunning! Sexy swaying and a few basic poses will be more than enough.

A private dance is a great opportunity to earn money, but also to build a rapport with your client. It’s crucial that you feel confident and ready to connect, as prior conversations and dance demonstrations often determine whether a client decides to book a private show. So before you start dancing, spend some time over a drink and find out what your client likes—what moves and types of dances appeal to them. This will give you a better understanding of what attracts them and what might put them off. During the dance itself, remember to maintain eye contact—this will allow you to gauge their reactions and adapt your moves to their preferences. Observe which positions catch their attention and give you confidence that you’re on the right track. Remember, confidence is key—the more comfortable and attractive you feel, the greater the chance that the client will decide to do more. This approach will ensure that your private dance is not only effective but also enjoyable for both you and the client.

In the club, makeup should be bold and long-lasting. Choose a foundation that provides full coverage and a mattifying powder to avoid shine. Smokey eyes are a classic – dark shadows, volumizing mascara, and bold eyebrows. You can add eyeliner for a more dramatic effect. Accentuate your cheekbones with bronzer and highlight the peaks of your face with highlighter. For lips, opt for a vibrant red or fuchsia, choosing a long-lasting lipstick. Use waterproof products and fixers to ensure your makeup lasts all night. The key is to feel confident and comfortable – makeup should enhance your natural sex appeal!

Hairstyles that are both striking and functional are best for a strip club:

Loose waves or curls – A natural, sensual look that adds volume and dynamics.
Straight, smooth hair – An elegant and confident look that’s easy to maintain.
A high ponytail or bun – Comfortable and sexy, it won’t get in the way of dancing.
Braids and braids – Create a girly yet sensual effect.
Asymmetrical cuts – A bold style that sets you apart from the crowd.

It’s important that your hairstyle is comfortable, holds well while dancing, and highlights your individual personality.

While every team can face challenges, working in a strip club also has many positive aspects that foster a friendly atmosphere among dancers. Many clubs foster a supportive and motivating atmosphere where colleagues help each other. Dancers often share their experiences and techniques, allowing them not only to develop their skills but also to create a strong, supportive community. Shared successes and achieving financial goals become the motivation for cooperation, not competition. A positive atmosphere, trust, and mutual respect help create strong bonds that make working in a club not only profitable but also emotionally satisfying. Dancers often experience successes and challenges together, building a sense of community and motivating further development.

Staying sober at work is crucial to maintaining full control and making informed decisions. As a dancer, you must be responsible for your finances and earnings, and financial instability cannot be the result of your actions. What’s happening around you is of paramount importance, so maintaining sobriety allows you to fully engage and take advantage of all the opportunities that working in a club offers. Of course, some dancers do occasionally indulge in a drink, but they do so in moderation, ensuring it doesn’t impact their performance or relationships with clients. Finding a balance that allows you to enjoy your work while maintaining full control over your decisions and behavior is crucial.

You don’t need any dance experience or special skills to get started. However, watching other dancers perform is a great way to learn and be inspired by their style. This will give you a better idea of what a well-executed show looks like and what moves and techniques can attract customers. Over time, through rehearsal and practice, you’ll develop your own unique style. Working at a club is also a great opportunity to learn and develop, so don’t be afraid to start – you’ll surely gain confidence and skills quickly!

No, a perfect body isn’t necessary to be a good stripper. In the strip club industry, confidence, charisma, and the ability to connect with clients are paramount. Every dancer, regardless of shape, can attract attention with their unique style, personality, and dancing skills. Most clients appreciate authenticity and confidence, so how you feel in your body is more important than whether it meets any specific standards. Everyone has something unique to offer!

The key to a successful performance is an outfit that not only looks sexy but also provides comfort and confidence. Choose high heels or wedges that make you feel stable and comfortable. Pair with sexy stockings with garters and a short skirt for a sensual touch. Make sure your bra flatters your bust and is easy to remove—avoiding difficult clasps or buttons is key to a smooth performance. Choose music that makes you feel like a goddess, and then simply give it your all on stage. Remember, you are the star of the show!

You quickly pick up the language abroad because you have so many opportunities to use it daily. I’ve personally tested every club we send dancers to, so I’m confident that even if you’re not fluent, you’ll do just fine. I was in your shoes once, so I know what it’s like. Additionally, over the past year, I’ve developed special conversational scripts for clients that will help you get started and adapt quickly. If you’d like, I’d be happy to share them with you!

Dancers earn money in three main ways:

Stage shows – Depending on the club, dancers receive a salary for each round of performances. The more attention they attract, the greater their chances of earning extra money, for example, by encouraging guests to buy drinks.

Private dances – This is one of the most profitable ways to earn money. A client can request a private dance, for which the dancer receives additional compensation. Often, private dances constitute the largest portion of the income.

Drinks and gifts from clients – A portion of the earnings also comes from tips, which clients give dancers when they are particularly pleased with their company. The dancer receives a percentage of the drink sales, and the more relationships she builds with the guest, the more opportunities she has to earn such income.

There are no limits in this industry – experience, skills, and dedication can translate into truly high earnings, and some girls can earn tens of thousands of złoty in a single night. It all depends on your approach and willingness!

For your first shift, bring a dance outfit that makes you feel sexy and comfortable, preferably something easy to take off. Don’t forget high heels with non-slip soles for comfortable dancing, and stockings and garters that match your outfit. Sexy lingerie—a bra and panties—is also a good idea. Prepare your makeup and touch-ups throughout the night, as well as hair accessories to keep your look attractive throughout the evening. Bring a perfume that will leave a lasting impression, and any show accessories you plan to wear (e.g., a rose or a fan). Don’t forget water and something light to eat to keep your energy up. The most important thing is to feel confident and comfortable, which will help you shine on stage.

The rules in strip clubs can vary, but they’re generally quite simple. Above all, it’s about respect for each other and the guests. Dancers are expected to adhere to a dress code—that is, appropriate attire for dancing. Physical contact with patrons is usually prohibited to maintain professionalism. In most clubs, drinking alcohol during a performance is discouraged, but tips and drink sales are the main source of income. Private dances have their own rules—price, time, and location. Clubs prioritize safety, so you’ll always have backup if you need it. Furthermore, each dancer has a set work schedule, including breaks, so everything is well-organized. It’s worth familiarizing yourself with the club’s rules beforehand to feel confident.

You don’t have to talk to customers if you don’t feel ready, but it’s worth remembering that conversation can be an important part of working in a club. Building relationships with guests can help increase tips and earn private dances, which are a key source of income. Often, a few kind words, a smile, and an interest in what a customer is saying are enough to create a positive atmosphere. Ultimately, you decide how much you engage in conversation, but an open and friendly approach can really help.

If you don’t feel confident on stage, that’s normal at first. It’s important to practice regularly – the more you dance, the more confident you’ll feel. Start with simple movements, and over time, you’ll gain more control. Remember to breathe deeply, which will help you relax. Pay attention to eye contact with the audience – it will build your confidence. Be gentle with yourself, and over time, you’ll find your own style, which will help you feel comfortable on stage. Everyone has their own beginnings – the most important thing is to enjoy what you do!

Yes, you can work at different clubs, especially if you work with an agency that can help you find the right spots—and that’s exactly the goal of Kate’s Diary Agency. Many dancers choose to work at multiple clubs, both locally and internationally. Working at different clubs allows you to gain experience, meet new people, and earn more because you have the opportunity to work in different settings and with different clients. It’s important to always follow the rules established by each club and be flexible, adapting to different, demanding environments.

Rules regarding tipping and private dances can vary from club to club. In some places, tipping is voluntary and depends on your interaction with the patrons – if you establish a good rapport, the customer is more likely to tip. However, remember that the dancer receives a percentage of the drinks sold (with champagne being the most lucrative). Private dances also vary from club to club. In some places, dancers are free to negotiate the price of a private dance, while in others, clubs set a fixed rate. If you’re interested in a specific club, I’d be happy to tell you all about their rules.

The length of shifts and the number of working days depend on the club you work at and your preferences. In most clubs, shifts last from a few to a dozen hours, often starting in the evening (at 8:00, 9:00, or 10:00 PM, and in some countries even at 11:00 PM) and continuing late into the night. In some places, you can work until the early morning hours (usually until 5:00, 6:00, or even 7:00 AM), especially on weekends. As for the number of days, dancers usually decide how many days a week they want to work. Some girls choose full-time and work most days of the week, while others may work only weekends or on selected days, depending on their needs.

Paradoxically, making money quickly can be a challenge. It’s important to find balance in managing your finances, creating savings plans, and approaching your spending wisely. Working in this industry can be lucrative, but the key lies in the ability to manage your finances and control your spending.

In strip clubs, patrons must respect dancers’ boundaries and follow the rules. Unconsensual touching is strictly prohibited. If a dancer feels uncomfortable, they have the right to refuse and end the interaction. Customers are not allowed to take photos or record videos without consent. It’s important to be polite and not intrude on the dancers – if they say “no,” security will ensure this. Clubs have rules, such as a drug ban, and patrons must adhere to them. If anyone breaks the rules, club staff intervenes to ensure everyone’s comfort and safety.

Yes, the agency provides convenient accommodations above or near the club. We’ll make sure you have comfortable conditions for work and relaxation. This means you don’t have to worry about finding accommodation – everything will be ready when you arrive.

No, you don’t have to be athletic to work in a club. In this industry, confidence, dancing skills, and charisma are key, not necessarily a perfect physique. Every dancer has their own individual style, and diversity is valued. However, if you’re looking to improve your fitness, you can opt for regular training, which will help you feel more confident and better about your body.

Most clubs typically have a minimum placement period of two weeks. This gives you time to familiarize yourself with the atmosphere, get to know the staff and clients, and feel comfortable in your new environment. Of course, if you decide to continue working after this period, you can, but if you feel the club isn’t meeting your expectations, you can always consider a change.