Are you at a point in your life where you’d like to start dancing, but… don’t feel sexy enough? I’m sure it’s because you’re being too critical of yourself. Firstly, be kinder to yourself! Secondly, if you need help in this matter, I’m here 🙂
First of all, you need to know that sex appeal is not just about women, but also men. Think about all those men you’ve liked. It was their sex appeal that caught your attention. I’m sure I’m not surprising you by saying that YOU also attract men thanks to your sex appeal. You have it in you, but you can always work on it and your femininity.
First of all – SMILE
I mention this in almost every article. But think about it: would you like to be around a grump? It’s smiling women that attract men. I know that sometimes the mood doesn’t help – that’s life. However, when you go to work, there’s no room for sadness and depression. If you have trouble with this, practice in front of the mirror. Fall in love with your smile and show it to the world!
Take care of yourself
This is not news to you either. If you’ve read any of my previous articles, you’ll have noticed that I draw your attention to physical appearance. Maybe you don’t need to go to a beautician regularly, or have your nails done all the time, but believe me, from time to time, such a beauty ritual, time for yourself, is very necessary for your mental comfort! If you’ve never used such services, you may not even realize how enjoyable they can be! Besides, going back to the headline: taking care of yourself naturally contributes to increased sex appeal. Men sometimes don’t notice it, but YOU WILL FEEL different about yourself.
Self-confidence is key
If you’re shy, you may have a difficult task ahead of you. However, if you’re considering working in a club – SELF-CONFIDENCE WILL BRING YOU THE GREATEST BENEFIT! I know you can’t change your temperament, but you can start with small steps. I recommend, for example, writing down your strengths and weaknesses. Be objective and pretend you’re describing yourself from someone else’s perspective. Looking at your strengths will show you that you have something to offer and something you may not have been aware of before. Weaknesses, on the other hand, will show you what you need to work on and… turn them into your advantages 🙂
You surely know something about it! You buy a new dress, blouse, shirt, or anything else – your mood changes immediately (of course, for the better). The same goes for wearing sexy lingerie, if not even more. Before going to the club, buy yourself a few sets, look at yourself in the mirror and say to yourself “I am sexy. I am beautiful. I am feminine.” Such positive affirmation will positively affect your opinion of yourself. And as for lingerie – maybe you’ll give up boxers forever in favour of something sensual? 😉