Kate's Diary (Kate's Diary Agency Kate Hajduk)

1. Should I become a stripper?

Contrary to popular belief, not all strippers are young, perfect-looking women. In fact, strippers are between the ages of 18 and 50 with different shapes.

2. What is the job of a dancer in a strip club?

One of the main tasks of a dancer is also talking to clients. After the show, the girls sit at the tables and establish contact with the club’s guests. And this creates another source of income. Customers buy drinks for dancers, and each time they receive a commission (the amount depends on the club) for their sales. Champagnes are particularly financially advantageous.
Private Dances – Clients can ask the girls for a private dance – it is entirely up to her whether the dancer agrees. This is why the earlier stages: demonstrating your dancing skills and establishing relationships with guests are so important. It is they who decide whether you will have the opportunity to perform a private dance, and thus really high earnings. You can also offer private shows to your clients – self-confidence is the most important thing here.

3. How to choose the right outfit for working in the club?

Go for something red, pink, or white (if there is UV in the clubhouse) to get customers’ attention. These are eye-catching colours so it’s a great way to stand out from other dancers Choose a pink bodice and knickers covered with a tight red or white dress. If you have no ideas for styling, write to me! I know designers who sew clothes/outfits, especially for strippers.
Choose attire that will be easy to take off – If you start dancing in a dress or full outfit. You have to pay attention to whether it is easy and quick to download. For example, choose outfits with press studs and Velcro fasteners instead of zippers and buttons.

4. What if you don’t have anything at home that is suitable for your first show?

If you don’t want to buy a new costume, ask if the club has any interesting, ones that you can borrow.

5. What shoes to choose in which you will feel confident?

An unruly fall or slip during the first show can affect your performance and most importantly your well-being. Make sure you choose a pair of shoes that are comfortable and that make you feel sexy. You can wear high heels. For starters, look for shoes with non-slip soles. They usually have rubber bottoms that will give you an extra grip on stage. I recommend buying the so-called “Pleaser Shoes” glasses, these shoes are designed for pole dancing only.

6. What nickname to choose that will remain in your memory?

It’s best to avoid common stripper names such as Blanka, Agnes, Candy or Alis. Instead, choose a sexy-sounding name that also feels like your real name. It can be anything, as long as it’s not your real name. This will help protect your privacy. For example, if you want the name to begin with “O”, you can select Olivia, Octavia, or Ola. If you want something that starts with “K”, Klara or Karo.

7. What kind of music should you dance to?

If you have the option to choose a song in the club, do it! This will make you feel more comfortable during the show. Try selecting two tracks, one faster and the other slower. Get yourself two choreographies. Thanks to this, when you enter the club, you will feel the atmosphere and it will be easier for you to decide what style you want to dance today. Find out if you can choose your own song at the club or if there is simply a pre-defined playlist.

8. How to dance the first night at the club?

Make simple movements that each of us can do. This is an easy move that you can add while dancing to showcase your strengths. In this case, the legs and the bottom. Stand with your legs slightly extended, put your back against the tube, and put your hands on your knees. Then slowly go down. Then come back the same way. You should have the tube between your buttocks. When you are on straight legs, lean forward. Try to make this move while facing your customers to give them a full view from the front and to the side at the same time.

9. Private dances

The clients can ask the girls to dance privately – it is entirely up to her whether the dancer agrees. They decide whether you will have the opportunity to perform a private dance, and thus really high earnings. This is why the earlier stages: demonstrating your dancing skills and establishing relationships with guests, are so important. You can also offer private shows to your clients – what matters most is self-confidence, and if you are now wondering how to perform such a dance in a private room, I have a few tips for you.
First, you should start preparing while chatting with drink: ask about preferences, his favourite parts of your show etc. It will be beneficial to understand his expectations. You don’t have to guess what he would like and what not really; if you know that, you are one step ahead. Even during the dance, keep an eye on his reactions to your positions or moves and maintain eye contact simultaneously.

10. How to prepare make-up and hair?

You only know which hairstyle fits you the best. Anyway, some methods can help you to highlight yourself on the stage:
-Most men think that long eyelashes are very sexy, so you can try synthetic ones
-Put on red lipstick, so your lips look bigger and more visible. It helps catch his attention
-Make your hair look relaxed and wavy to look more natural and sexy.
-Don’t forget about your manicure and pedicure; well-maintained hands and feets are essential aspects.

11.  Are there a lot of fights or problems between dancers?

Girls at the club at very friendly, open-minded and keen to help. In every workplace, a healthy rivalry was and will be a vital motivation source that keeps pushing you to be more efficient. Right here, every competition is about catching client interest. Therefore, girls have strong self-esteem and won’t feel discriminated or under pressure.

12. Can you drink alcohol at the club?

Being sober at the club is very crucial. A lot of dancers have a drink or two from time to time, but drinking it very often can cause you some problems. A dancer’s mind has to be clear; you have to control the situation at the club and keep an eye on what’s happening around you. You can’t let yourself lose money only because of getting out of control.

13. Do I have to be a professional dancer to work at the club?

No, of course not. You don’t have to possess any dancing skills at the start. Skills come with experience. Anyway, getting experience from watching shows of other dancers is an excellent idea.

14. Do I have to own a fantastic body to become a stripper?

Many girls are too afraid of starting this path only because of their self-esteem. In fact, strippers have all kinds of shapes, so you don’t have to be frightened.

15. How to do my first private dance?

Foremost, choose your outfit: take high heels that you won’t be afraid to use; your confidence or lack of it is apparent, so you cant pick shoes that will be uncomfortable and uncertain. Then, select appropriate accessories like stockings or mini skirts. Essential is also an excellent-looking bra that won’t be challenging to take off. Fighting with your bra is not sexy, and your miserable effort will ruin the atmosphere. 

16. How much do strippers earn?
There are three sources of income that helps strippers make money. Your payment is limitless; it only depends on you and how much you can make. Some girls are making even dozens of grands each night.

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